How to Use Archetypes to Overcome Indecision and Stop Feeling Stuck 👑
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“Act Into Her”
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From the song, “Act Into Her” by Suzan Alakas
Sometimes all you need to break free from indecision and feeling stuck feeling is a simple shift in perspective!✨
• Originally written: 23 October 2024
• Last updated: 23 October 2024
• Written by: Suzan Alakas
Suzan is Growtharmony’s Founder and Editor-In-Chief. She is passionate about spreading the amazing work and inspiring stories of heart-centered women entrepreneurs working to make the world a better place. When Suzan’s not writing, finding leverage points or learning something new - you can find her in the garden, playing in the snow with her family, or in the kitchen cooking up a nourishing meal!
Unlock New Perspectives with Archetypes
Women entrepreneurs face unique challenges, especially those in caring and teaching roles - like coaches, therapists, healers, or mothers.
When challenges leave us feeling stuck, indecisive, or second-guessing ourselves, it’s easy to become overwhelmed and freeze - unsure of the next right step.
Have you ever caught yourself staring at your screen, avoiding a task, or thinking:
Why can’t I just make a decision? 😕
Where do I start?
I don’t know what to do next…?
This sense of indecision and second-guessing can keep us in a loop of frustration, preventing us from moving forward with clarity.
But here’s the good news: sometimes all we need to break free from this stuck feeling is a shift in perspective! And one powerful way to do that is by embodying different archetypes - imagining how various “characters” might approach your problem. ✨
Here is an adaptation of a Tony Robbins exercise. He suggests using archetypes - such as a King, Queen, or Magician - to step outside your normal thought patterns and actions, and see solutions from a new vantage point.
Let’s explore how these archetypes can help you when you feel stuck!
The Queen: Calmness and Compassion 💕
Imagine you are the Queen of your business empire. You have a grand vision for your kingdom, and with that comes great responsibility.You don’t make decisions out of haste or panic. You pause, reflect, and act with kindness and grace.
Try this sensory exercise:Sit at your desk with intentionality. Imagine wearing a crown, feeling its gentle weight on your head.
Instead of rushing, you take a few deep breaths.
When faced with a challenge, the Queen asks: “How can I serve my people best?”
Your breathing slows, and your posture straightens as you confidently assess your options with a perspective rooted in calmness and compassion.
2. The King: Strategy and Authority 💪
Now step into the shoes of the King. He is the ultimate strategist, calculating risks and making bold decisions without fear of judgment.
While the Queen leads with her heart, the King uses intellect and authority.
With the King’s mindset, you might realize that the decision you’ve been second-guessing can be simplified by focusing on the long-term benefits rather than short-term discomfort.
Try this sensory exercise:
Walk around like a king in his study, pacing back and forth.
His question is: “What’s the most strategic move I can make?”
You feel the weight of responsibility on your shoulders, but also the strength in your body as you strategize.
You see maps and plans in your mind, plotting your next steps with certainty.
3. The Magician: Creativity and Possibility ✨
The Magician archetype invites you to tap into your creative power and think outside the box. The Magician sees endless possibilities where others see obstacles.
As the Magician, you access your intuition and creativity, finding unconventional solutions to break free from indecision.
Try this sensory exercise:
Take out a piece of paper or a notebook. Allow your hands to move freely - sketching or writing down ideas as they arise.
The Magician asks: “What new tools or resources can I use to transform this situation?”
The pen flows easily across the paper, and suddenly, the weight of indecision lifts as new possibilities emerge from seemingly nowhere.
You feel excited, having tapped into a higher source of inspiration.
Breaking the Cycle of Indecision
Each of these archetypes offers a different way to approach the same challenge. As you switch between these perspectives, notice how your emotions and thoughts shift and how you begin to see additional possibilities and options. Now you are empowered to make a choice!
When you’re feeling uncertain, overwhelmed, or stuck in a cycle of second-guessing yourself, take a moment to embody one or more of these archetypes.
Play with the different perspectives, and let your inner Queen, King, or Magician guide you to a solution! 😊
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